This morning I smothered my ash blonde hair in purple shampoo and went about my morning, cooking muffins, hanging washing, vacuuming the car, ironed work clothes. I was also watching the most important boy’s in my life. They were mowing the yard and fixing our 1975 Valiant, they were at the work bench playing with tools. My two are growing up so fast and are maturing into real men’s men. They love to fish, and surf and build things, work on cars, camp, play sport. And I love this side of them but I also want them to have a soft, kind and gentle side.
I never let them go anywhere unless they kiss and cuddle me goodbye, I love to curl up with them at night on the lounge and hang out. When my husband was still working away, I loved when they would sneak into my bed and sleep with me (well not the snoring or the kicking and stealing the blankets- but I did love that they still wanted to.) I let them see me cry and get emotional and explain that it’s ok to be vulnerable. They see me walking around the house in knickers and bra and know what a women’s body looks like. They see me make an effort whenever I go out or to work with hair, clothes, and make up. They also see me hustle, and witness the juggle of me working and also being a wife and mumma and the stress that goes with that. When we are grocery shopping they have been taught to help. They know that they are now my muscle. They know that I can carry and lift and use my own strength, but I have explained to them, that they are growing up into men and they use their muscle’s when a woman they love needs a hand. They have lots of wonderful women that they love in their life Grandmother’s, aunties, teacher’s, friends, I have always taught them to use manners and respect.
Do not get me wrong these boys are not perfect, and there is arguments and whinging, eye rolling and “it’s not fair”, when they have to do something they don’t want to do, but they are children who are learning like all of us. But this morning when I went to open the back door, and had my hands full, one of them ran over and opened the door and then took my load upstairs for me, I was so proud of him. “love you my beautiful gentleman” I yelled up the stairs at him.
End of day 10.
Need to leave for work in 40 min and not at all ready.
Had a really great productive Sunday so far. Happy Sunday everyone. x